R.E.S.T.O.R.E. Duval Observations Part 4: Change is Possible

While visiting the R.E.S.T.O.R.E. house in May, I immediately noticed how clean it was. Not a crumb was on the floor, or an item out of place. I was shocked to hear that despite this level of cleanliness, no chore list existed. Provided with a clean space, air conditioning, computers, Wi-Fi, and one meal a day, residents appreciate their resources, respect the space, and clean up after themselves. With no time limit at R.E.S.T.O.R.E., residents are permitted to stay as long as they need to get on their feet and transition into independent living confidently and comfortably. R.E.S.T.O.R.E. has a 0% recidivism rate for graduates, a statistic that is virtually unheard of in reentry programs. With a focus on maintaining the dignity and freedom of every woman, Rebecca gives residents the tools they need to thrive post-incarceration. They even received luxury Coach purses on Valentine’s Day as a reward for their hard work. Valerie is now looking forward to a long weekend at a beachside Airbnb that Rebecca booked. It’s an opportunity for residents to celebrate their progress and relax.  

When people hear labels such as “convicted felon” associated with the previously incarcerated, they think of dangerous criminals incapable of change who cannot contribute to society. This attitude is societal exile, encouraging those who have been incarcerated to perpetuate their incriminating behaviors. Rebecca approaches things differently, upholding that everyone, regardless of their past actions, is deserving of dignity and a safe space to grow. When residents are provided with resources and services that uphold their best interests and maintain their dignity, a successful transition back into independent living is not just possible; it’s likely.  

Valerie came to R.E.S.T.O.R.E. with the understanding that, having been incarcerated four times for drug use, she fits the repeat offender profile. Determined to avoid a fifth incarceration, she frequently reminds herself, “I’m not going back.” She created new roots at the R.E.S.T.O.R.E. house, becoming close with a friend’s family in the area, and serving as Rebecca’s assistant because of her helpful nature. She expresses her gratitude to God and R.E.S.T.O.R.E. for helping her discover that “life is great sober.”  

While in prison, Valerie joined the Joy program, a faith-based program that helps inmates build a relationship with God. She remains in contact with the program director, whom she considers one of her best friends. They meet up for breakfast when she passes through Ocala, Florida. This is the longest Valerie has been sober after prison, and the longest she’s held a job.  She expresses her gratitude for her current situation, saying, “I’m thankful to R.E.S.T.O.R.E. for changing my life.” Now saving money, Valerie has discovered a love for shopping. Her current favorite store is Carters, because (with the biggest smile on her face), her son in Sarasota is expecting a baby in October. 

Valerie’s son recently hugged her and expressed his pride in her progress, an act of forgiveness that meant a lot to her. She carries that moment with her as she strives to be the best Grandmother and Mother she can be. Valerie’s advice for those still struggling with addiction is this: build a relationship with Jesus, maintain distance from drug users and drug accessible places, and build a strong sober support system. At the end of our conversation, Valerie explained that although not currently in a position to donate, she can spread awareness and advocate for change in those still struggling with addiction. She is living proof that change is possible, because even after a million chances, one finally stuck.